But what if
you have to fly to all the big conferences? What if you can only choose one? Do
you return to a conference you’ve attended before, or venture out and explore something
new?
Based on my
own experience, let me give you a few pros and cons for returning to the same
conference.
Pros:
Understanding the Schedule. New conferees take a look at the
schedule and start searching for a paper bag to breathe into. But once you’ve
gone through it, the flow of the conference makes sense and the only thing you
have to stress about is choosing classes.
Reconnecting with Friends. Instead of standing in registration
hoping you don’t stick out as a newbie, you’ll be squealing (well, the men do
more of a head bob than a squeal) and hugging friends you made the last time.
Fewer Newbie Gaffes. There are plenty of stories of
writers who didn’t recognize award winning faculty members or who tried to
pitch to volunteers or who misspelled names on thank you notes. I can’t say you
won’t do any of that on a return trip, but it’s less likely.
More Interactions. Lots of writers are introverts, and
hanging out with 400+ strangers can be intimidating. This time, I found I was
more likely to introduce myself to people and strike up conversations on the
way to meals or before classes.
Better Overall Experience. I didn’t think my conference
experience could get much better than it was in 2010. I was wrong. My
conference goals were different but my sense of satisfaction, both with what I
learned and what I accomplished, was much higher. In 2010, I was thrilled to keep
my head above water, but in 2012, I felt like I was riding the waves.
Now, to be
fair, there were a few negatives to returning to the same conference.
Cons:
Fatigue. With so many friends and so little
time, I didn’t get much rest. I networked (that’s conference speak for “hanging
out with friends eating chocolate”) after the evening sessions and then got up
early to network (that’s conference speak for “meeting people for breakfast or
coffee”) most mornings. I decided I could sleep when I got home.
More Interactions. Contrary to popular belief, faculty
members are not mean ogres out to embarrass you. They try to be kind to the
newest members of the conference community. But, if they get to know you and
know you can take some tough love…well, you might get some. The good news is
you’ll learn a lot…and get a story you can use out of it!
So what do
you think? Should you return to the same conference or visit a new one each
year?
Don’t forget to join the conversation!
Blessings,
Lynn
Lynn Huggins Blackburn has been telling herself stories since she was five and finally started writing them down. She blogs about faith, family, and her writing journey on her blog Out of the Boat. Lynn is a member of the Jerry B. Jenkins Christian Writers Guild and the Word Weavers, Greenville. She lives in South Carolina where she hangs out with three lively children, one fabulous man, and a cast of imaginary characters who find their way onto the pages of her still unpublished novels. She drinks a lot of coffee.