“I’m not getting any traction with social media,” is one of
the complaints I hear a lot as I travel and teach writers how to connect.
There are a lot of reasons people feel this way, a few are
legit, but most are just unreasonable expectations. Today I’m going to address the
Unrealistic Expectations, then next Monday, in Part Two, I’ll go over the ways
that work to gain traction, and help you get a good read on your actual
progress.
Unrealistic Expectations
The more time I spend
on Facebook and Twitter, the more friends and followers I’ll have. I’ve addressed this one several times, but I
still hear it the most. Truthfully, after you’ve come up to speed on social
media, spending more than thirty minutes a day on social media will trap you in
the law of diminishing returns. This is a case of work smarter, not harder.
I’m spending time
talking about my book, but my sales aren’t reflecting that. If you’re
spending the most of your social media updates on yourself or your product,
you’ve missed the point of social media. Social media is about building
one-on-one relationships, it’s NOT an advertising platform. Building
relationships will increase your reach and more people will hear about your
book. THAT is where your increase in sales will come. Making your social media
updates all about (or even one half about) you will drive people away and you
may see a decrease.
Social Media is a
fast way to increase my reach. Well…not so much. Like anything worth while
it takes time—and consistency—to build a following. It took me about nine
months to go from about seventy-five Twitter followers to one thousand. Then
about a year to go from that to ten thousand followers.
I need to stay
current with the new social media platforms. Again, not really. The thinner
you spread yourself, the shallower your reach. To get to the majority of your
audience who’s on social media, you need to be on Twitter and Facebook. And you
need to have a place where you are blogging regularly—that can be a personal
blog or a group blog. If you find another platform you love (like Pinterest)
find a way to work it into your thirty minutes a day.
I need to balance my time on Facebook, Twitter and Blogging. You do need to have a presence on
all three, but you’ll find your own sweet spot. That’s where you need to
concentrate your efforts. Do you have five thousand Facebook fans and only
seven hundred Twitter followers? Then Facebook is your sweet spot. Spend the
majority of your time there. Maintain an audience with the other two, but go
with your passion. That strategy will always get you further. Beyond that,
you’ll enjoy it more.
All of these things are common complaints about social media. What about you? What part of social media frustrates you? Leave the answer in the comments section and I'll try to help you figure out if it's unrealistic expectations or something you can fix.
Don't forget to join the conversation!
Blessings,
Edie
Read Part Two of Gain Traction with Social Media instead of Spinning Your Wheels here!
The part of social media that frustrates me is that it changes so much and there are constantly new things out there to try It I'm so glad you narrowed it down. I know there is some value in all of them, but I can't possibly do it all.
ReplyDeleteMichelle, trying the latest and greatest is always a temptation. But I'm learning I can only do so much! Thanks for stopping by, Blessings, E
DeleteThanks . . . again. Need to keep hearing this. :-)
ReplyDeleteBarb Winters
Barb, thanks so much for stopping by! Blessings, E
DeleteYou've hit my biggest frustration- time. Finding the balance, and focusing my efforts, is a constant learning process.
ReplyDeleteJulia, I think that time thing bites all of us! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Blessings, E
DeleteBalancing social media (networking) is my biggest frustration too. A friend once told me to spend fifteen minutes in each writer's group you belong to and always comment intelligently. Well, I've found out that this doesn't always work. Especially, if you're in a discussion that's near to your heart like book promoting. I'll figure out the balancing act in due time.
ReplyDeleteGood advice once again.
ReplyDeleteThanks for reminding us of what's important with social media, Edie. Great... as always!
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