Showing posts with label Releasing Ourselves from the Writing Comparison Trap. Show all posts
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Friday, January 9, 2015

Life Lessons for Writers—Releasing Ourselves from the Writing Comparison Trap

by Vonda Skelton @VondaSkelton


No matter where we are on this writing
journey, we tend to compare.
Beginning in 2003 and continuing through 2011, Edie and I led yearly NCompass Writing Retreats. The goal of each retreat was to offer a time of refreshing, refueling, and of course, writing and rewriting. But in our last year of retreats, we realized that year’s focus was on another re: releasing.

Let’s face it, no matter where we are on this writing journey, we tend to compare. We compare our words to other writers and determine our worth. We compare their publications to our rejections. We long for their successes and see ourselves as failures.