From Edie: Lilka Raphael shows writers how to make the most of a writers conference with practical tips for networking, trying new classes, packing wisely, and enjoying the experience while growing your writing career and creative community.
Writing Conference Checklist Part 2: What to Do During the Conference to Build Connections and Grow
by Lilka Raphael @Lilka_Raphael
“He who laughs most, learns best.” — John Cleese
Whether you’re attending a conference this year or contemplating one in the future, here are four recommendations to make your next conference your best conference.
1. Talk to People
As an introvert, I admit this can be difficult. Writers often communicate best behind a keyboard. However, most conference attendees are eager to engage in conversation and fellowship with other authors. You may find someone talking about a class that could be helpful or share an experience that inspires you. If you’re at a loss for words, simply ask, “What do you write?” That phrase quickly opens conversations that lead to lasting friendships. A number of attendees travel together and meet annually, having done so for years.
I’ve met people at conferences who I still connect with regularly. One faculty member became my mentor and very recently a publisher. Another took me under her wing which opened doors that I never imagined. You can never anticipate where those not so random conversations can take you. Connecting with people and expanding your circle of cohorts is one of the most beneficial aspects of attending. The most casual conversations often lead to exceptional opportunities.
2. Try Something New
I plan meticulously for conferences. However, I’ve also learned to reserve time to explore new things. Though primarily a devotional writer, I’ll venture into classrooms geared toward fiction authors. A substantial amount of information taught applies across multiple genres.
Dare to stretch yourself. You never know what you’ll learn about the craft. You may find that screenwriting is preferrable to becoming a novelist. One of the highlights of attending a conference is learning about new avenues, publishing trends, and platforms you won’t discover elsewhere.
3. Pack Accordingly
This may seem like an odd inclusion, but as you pack your One Sheet, proposal, and business cards, there are other essentials as well.
Check the weather and then check it again. The conferences that I’ve attended require walking outdoors to enter classrooms. Finding yourself drenched and then sitting in a frigid room will distract from the information presented. So will achy feet. Pack a jacket, an umbrella, and comfortable shoes. Lastly, remember to bring snacks and a dedicated journal for notes to stay focused and attentive.
4. Enjoy It
Even as you frantically memorize your pitch and scurry to appointments, make sure to enjoy the experience. In our urgency to learn more or get picked up by a publisher, it’s important to be present in the moment.
Ice cream social? Go check it out. Or, if attending the conference gives you rare time to write without interruption, do so. However possible, make the most of this opportunity. Get adequate rest and recharge your creativity. Laugh a little and then laugh some more.
Publishing is a journey. Enjoy it.
A wise man will hear and increase learning, And a man of understanding will attain wise counsel, Proverbs 1:5 NKJV
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Lilka’s greatest achievements are her two adult sons who have flown the nest. Happily married for thirty-two years, she lives east of Atlanta with her husband, Rod. They now share their home with two German Shepherds—Holly and Ivy—and one naughty kitty, Moxie.
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