Friday, March 22, 2024

Three Steps for Crafting a Compelling Speaking Presentation


by Lori Hatcher

Your writing has opened up opportunities to speak. You realize your life experiences and spiritual insight can make a difference in other people’s lives. You know what you want to say, but you aren’t sure how best to say it. 

Toastmasters International speaker Ryan Avery studied 25 years of the International Speech Contest winners to determine which elements are most important in crafting a memorable, moving, and motivating speech. He included these three elements in his speech, “Trust Is a Must,” and walked away as the 2012 Toastmasters International World Champion. 

When he spoke to my Toastmasters International club, he shared a three-step formula that helped him craft his compelling presentation. We can apply these steps to our own speeches.

Step 1: Make Your Speech Simple—Simple Always Wins

Use an introduction (a hook), three supporting stories, and a conclusion that ties into your introduction. Choose one main point and use everything else to point to and reinforce your point. 

Use a constant object, word, or phrase to connect your stories to your purpose. Sometimes this is called a “sticky statement.”

Remember that simple doesn’t have to be dry, dull, or boring. Look for ways to engage all five senses and incorporate intentional gestures to reinforce key points. Leverage the power of the pause for emphasis.

Resist the urge to be the hero in your own story. Let others learn from your mistakes and be sure God gets the glory, not you.

As with good writing, use as much active voice as you can to add emphasis and power to your presentation.

Step 2: Make your speech impactful

Find your passion and share it. If you could only tell one message to one person, what would that message be? Instead of “giving a speech,” share a message from your heart.

Ask, what story from my experience can help someone else? Be vulnerable. Don’t be afraid to tell on yourself, providing you do so in ways that are appropriate to your topic and your audience. 

Step 3: Make Your Speech Relatable

Take time necessary to craft a title that inspires curiosity or interest. 

Resist the urge to tell jokes. Share a failure instead. If you can laugh about your mistakes, and you invite your audience to laugh with you, they’ll find it easier to connect with you. It’s hard to relate to a perfect person.

With your family’s permission, use your them to be relatable. I mean, who can’t relate to a story about cute grandkids, a cuddly dog, or quirky in-laws?

Remember, dress to relate, not to impress. Speakers should dress one level above the audience’s dress, but don’t wear a tuxedo to a potluck. Dressing down can communicate disrespect for the audience, but dressing too far up can make you appear disconnected and superior. If you’re not sure what the dress will be, ask your event coordinator.

If you’re a writer, you’ve noticed that many of the components of a successful written presentation transfer over into a memorable, moving, and motivational speech. You may never become a Toastmasters International Champion of Public Speaking, but with a few tweaks and a nod toward stage presence, you can create a presentation that will delight your audience and allow you to share the message God has laid on your heart.

Now it’s your turn to join the conversation. Share your best tip for a successful speaking presentation in the comments below.

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Lori Hatcher loves to inspire and equip others by sharing high-impact stories for spiritual transformation. A popular women’s ministry speaker and writing/speaking instructor, Lori is an Advanced Communicator Gold and Advanced Leader Bronze with Toastmasters International. She writes for Our Daily Bread, Guideposts, Revive Our Hearts, and Crosswalk.com. Check out her latest devotional, A WORD FOR YOUR DAY: 66 DEVOTIONS TO REFRESH YOUR MIND, from Our Daily Bread Publishing. Connect with her at LORIHATCHER.COM or on FACEBOOK.

7 comments:

  1. Lori, thanks for sharing this easy to follow and insightful information.

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    1. I hope you find it helpful, Barbara. Blessings on your writing and speaking :)

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  2. Lori, The training I received in seminary didn't include most of your suggestions. I printed this one. Such helpful, important strategies. Thank you for sharing with us!

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    1. I’m so glad you found this useful, Julie. May God. Less you as you speak for Him.

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  3. Thanks, I've been asked to speak at our Women's Ministry meeting, but have declined so far. Your post has encouraged me. But what do you do in your speech when your voice gives out? The asthma inhaler I use ruins my vocal cords. (One reason I stopped teaching.) I can write devotionals, etc., but maybe God doesn't want me "talking." haha.

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    1. That is challenging, Jackie. Microphones help, for sure. Also knowing your limitations (does your voice last 15 minutes? 20? Accept invitations within those parameters. Also, you could combine speaking with activities where participants have a discussion time, which would give your voice a rest in between.

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    2. Thank you. Those are good suggestions.

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