Saturday, July 20, 2019

Letting Go of Negative Thoughts for Better Writing


by Emme Gannon @GannonEmme


How often do we sit at our computer, ready to write, but are blocked by faraway thoughts—mindless wanderings that pull us off subject into an unfamiliar abyss. This often occurs when our world is jolted by change. Life is good. Comfortable. Then God moves us to a new place. Unfamiliar. An unknown world bereft of our knowledge and control. Life tilts away from the familiar and we become emotionally off balance. We can’t concentrate. Our mind becomes mush. We doubt our calling.

Research tells us that the average person has between 60,000 to 80,000 random thoughts per day, of which 80% are negative. Negative thoughts are often accusatory—reminders of a bad choice or a situation that we deem hopeless. They could be musings of a dream that failed to occur, despite our best efforts. Or what-if thoughts that project a scenario of darkness that has the potential to render us defenseless. Truth is often hidden by a self-imposed wall, guarded and held in place by fear. For the writer, negative thoughts have the potential to be scene stealers, in a bad way.

These spontaneous reflections are chaotic and can be repetitive. They produce inner congestion that often stands in the way of our ability to connect with the world. It is believed that this is a rather recent phenomenon that began to occur after the advent of our modern technological age and has only increased with our dependence, and often misuse, of social media. As we become glued to our computers and cell phones and our minds explode with information, much of it negative, we can take on mindless wandering.

Our thoughts have three inputs: sensory information from the world, sensory information from the body, and self-generated thoughts from our minds. That means that messages from either of these inputs affect all of our choices, from what we eat to how we spend our day, including what communication our brain sends to our body. Fight or flight. Or peace and calm. Each input competes with one another and the information most pronounced survives. If thoughts drive feelings, and we know they do, then we have the potential to self-destruct. Or overcome.

However, we need not fear. There is help. And hope. None of this takes God by surprise. Before the beginning of time, He knew us and chose when we would arrive on planet earth, and where. We are here for such a time as this. His goal is to make us into the image of His Son. That always requires yielding of self. Letting go of the picture of what you thought life would be and learning to find joy in the story you’re living.

2 Corinthians 10:3-5 tells us, “For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh, for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive.” We are admonished to allow God to tear down the barriers that exist apart from His truth. And take every thought captive.

This is not always easy. But the Lord never asks His children to do the impossible. We can start by being conscious of what we are thinking. Reject any thoughts that lie about who you are, who others are, or who God is. Thoughts that make us feel hopeless, worried, or afraid are not from God and will steal creativity. Take such negative thinking to God in prayer and let Him replace your thinking with His.

By directing our minds to go deeper—to the place where God speaks, and by yielding our thoughts to God and allowing Him to harness our senses, our minds are free to explode with the creative gifts He has uniquely placed within each of His children. As our minds de-clutter, our stories go deeper, our characters become more believable, and we are bold to dwell in the place where God whispers. His words. His story. Told to us so that we can write from a heart uncluttered by time and space and yielded to the One who creates all things new.

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Emme Gannon is a wife, mother, and grandmother who loves to write stories that stir the heart. Her award-winning writing has appeared in Focus on the Family magazine, several anthologies, and numerous newsletters. She just completed her first novel.

10 comments:

  1. Loved this, as always, Ms. Emme. We must indeed "train our minds" to control the thoughts we have. When negative thoughts start to creep in (more often than I would like I'm afraid), I try to "head them off at the pass" by singing a hymn or reciting scripture in my mind. When I dwell on those negatives, they grow in strength it seems. God's blessings ma'am; and Thank You for these great tips.

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    1. Thank you so much, J.D. I love how you "head them off at the pass." Good advise for all. Blessings to you and your writing.

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  2. Thanks for your wise words, Emma. I needed them today!

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    1. The Lord knows what we need and when, Jarm. I also struggle often with staying positive. The Lord is always faithful to perfect that which concerns us.

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  3. Wonderful article and powerful points, Emme. Love this, "Truth is often hidden by a self-imposed wall, guarded and held in place by fear." Thanks so much for reminding us to de-clutter our minds for better writing.

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    1. Thank you for your comments, Karen. They always edify as well as glorify the Lord we both serve. Love your heart.

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  4. Great post Emme - all the way through - and paragraph 5 speaks straight to my heart. Amen. :)

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    1. I'm so grateful that my post spoke to you. Our confidence is in Jesus and the fact that wherever we are in our walk, He is there with us. Blessings in your writing.

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  5. My passion is writing Christian Romance Supernatural novels to reach the lost. I've done my homework in reading/studying dozens of books on the good/bad angels, the Nephilim, the demons,the fallen angels,the end times, the rapture, the tribulation, the third coming of Christ, the Millennium, & the new Earth, to name a few. I'm desperate to find a kindred-spirit mentor to help me expose my writing & my books. I am an author of 2 books & I have 2 outlines for 2 more books. The Holy Spirit helps me incorporate these scary topics into my romance storylines (without preaching) through my interesting diverse characters. My spiritual Mentor is the Holy Spirit Who gives me not only spiritual ideas, but twists, turns, and humor for my page turning, beta readers. the problem is I'm having trouble selling these Christian Romance Supernatural books. I've watched writer podcasts, gone to writer conferences, and taken "find your tribe" conline classes but none of the above have helped sell books. I need a live person mentor to take me under their wing to help me expose my writing. What say you?

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    1. Kathy, I write Women's Fiction, not Supernatural, so would not be a good mentor fit for you. I suggest you attend Blue Ridge Christian Writer's Conference or the ACFW conference to network with other writers who might be able to mentor you. Also, when you join ACFW, you will have the opportunity to connect with a critique partner who writes in your genre. Blessings in your writing.

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