by Rhonda Rhea @RhondaRhea
Sometimes
I’m tempted to take some time off from hairspray. Sometime when I’m planning to
go nowhere. And I mean absolutely nowhere. I think I would call it a
spray-cation.
It’s funny
because I almost remember what it was like to freely run my fingers through my
hair. It’s been a long time, though. These days I invest in a lot of hair
products. The fingers may go in, but I’m telling you right now. They’re not
coming out.
I have to
keep the crazy assortment of hair sprays, gels, mousses and goops because it
takes a different concoction for every style. A brew for every do, as it were.
When constructing an up-do, for instance, you sort of have to pour footings. I
use a product that’s referred to as styling mousse but I think it might
actually be some sort of rebar.
Still, not
to split hairs or anything, but it’s good to remember that if you don’t want to
have to wrestle with your hair, you have to start with a good goo-foundation.
As for
real life battles, if you want victory there, you have to start with a good
spiritual foundation. You have to invest. Time invested in connecting with the
Father in prayer is absolutely vital.
Are you
wrestling with your flesh on some issue or another? Take it to Him. Struggling
with a decision? Lay it at His feet. Grappling with a fearful situation that
has your hair standing on end—even before the mousse? Spend time with Him and
the battle is all but over. The God who created everything, the One who never
tires, the One who has all power and who also promises to grant strength to
those who will rely on Him—He is the One who will give victory. There’s not a
single battle we can ever face that He doesn’t have the power to win.
Isaiah
40:28-31 spells it out. “Do you not know? Have you not heard? Yahweh is the
everlasting God, the Creator of the whole earth. He never grows faint or weary;
there is no limit to His understanding. He gives strength to the weary and
strengthens the powerless. Youths may faint and grow wear, and young men
stumble and fall, but those who trust in the Lord will renew their strength;
they will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they
will walk and not faint,” (HCSB).
So it’s
eyes off of the battle that threatens to overwhelm us. And eyes on the God who
simply cannot be overwhelmed. The evil one wants to keep us focused on the
problems, frustrations and pains of the battle. But the Lord wants us to take
our eyes off all of that and fix them firmly on Him. More firmly fixed than the
surest hair-glue. We can do that through prayer. And that’s where our strength
will be found.
Feeling
weary? Powerless? Like you could easily stumble and fall? Without a doubt, the
best place to fall is to your knees. Trust in the One who will be your strength.
Fall before Him in prayer and you will find everything you need for
soaring—really soaring—through every battle.
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Rhonda Rhea is a humor columnist for lots of great magazines, including HomeLife, Leading Hearts, The Pathway and more. She is the author of 10 nonfiction books, including How Many Lightbulbs Does It Take to Change a Person? and coauthors fiction with her daughter, Kaley Faith Rhea. She and her daughters host the TV show, That’s My Mom, for Christian Television Network’s KNLJ. Rhonda enjoys traveling the country speaking at all kinds of conferences and events. She and her pastor/hubs have five grown children and live in the St. Louis area.
I'm there, Sister, struggling to focus on Him and not the problems looming around me. Good reminder. And my foundation of choice is spray gel - no fingers allowed. Love ya!
ReplyDeletePaula! Praying for you this very minute, my friend! Also I respect your choice to gel. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteWhile my Brylcreem(tm) days are over Ms. Rhonda (I comb my hair with a damp washcloth these days), your advice rings so true in my life. God's blessings for sharing the wisdom of God's truth ma'am.
ReplyDeleteJim, a little dab'll do ya. I mean with the washcloth, LOL! Thanks for your input--you're awesome!
DeleteWords I needed today, Rhonda. Thanks for the uplifting hairdo ... I mean words. :)
ReplyDeleteThank YOU, Elaine. And good one! LOL!!
DeleteI have tried to look past the problems and concentrate on God and talk to Him about what I need, what my friends need and what our world needs.
ReplyDeleteSo admirable. The good news is that at every place we just can't (that's a LOT of places for me), He will empower it. What a relief. Because basically I got nuttin.
DeleteIt's a wise way to go--very selfless and "Jesus-ful" of you!
DeleteLoved this! I have thick, coarse unruly curls so I know all about hair products to tame the beast! Loved this analogy. You are the queen of wit and wisdom!
ReplyDeleteWhat a great way to introduce a serious subject. Love it! In fact, I laughed out loud. Then, right when you meant for me to, I realized how important my foundation is across the board.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, dear! Hope to see you again soon!
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