by Lyneta Smith @LynetaS
What are some other methods
you use to combat busyness and manage your time? Do you have some fun writing
challenges to encourage productivity you’d like to share?
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There’s a bully
on every block. Even writer’s block. We’ll call him “Busy.” He stands with arms
crossed and a scowl on his face, daring us to open our laptops amidst a litany
of other tasks that need our attention.
Between working
other jobs, parenting, and taking care of the house, Busy Bully squeezes every
hour until we don’t have time to write. Just like the scrawny 5th grader who
refuses to give up his milk money to the burly 8th grader, we can take back our
writing time.
Here are three
ways we can shut down Busy Bully:
Delegation
We have tasks
that must be done, but they don’t all have to be done by us. Often, a teenager or college student will mow the lawn or
clean the house inexpensively.
Those of us who
are parents love to take care of our families and make sure our kids have everything
they need. Between soccer, ballet, and all the other activities, even driving
becomes a part-time job.
But consider
something else children need: life skills. When we allow them the opportunity
to learn to clean their rooms, wash dishes, and other age-appropriate chores,
we’re giving them a gift. They’ll grumble at first, but an incentive for chores
(e.g., screen time or allowance) should sweeten the deal.
Parents of
infants and preschoolers who are sleep deprived often roll their eyes at advice
to “get up early or stay up late.” I don’t blame them! If writing first thing
is the last thing you need, try swapping childcare with a friend or finding a
Mom’s day out program. Choose a productive time of day and enjoy a guilt-free
writing session.
Creative bursts come occasionally, but most productivity depends on a regular routine. |
Schedule
Whether we need
babysitting arrangements or not, usually we won’t write unless we schedule a
specific time.
If we don’t block off a segment of the day for writing, other
demands inevitably take over.
Creative bursts
come occasionally, but most productivity depends on a regular routine.
Sometimes
it’s difficult to get started when I’m not inspired, but if I stick with it
more than 20 minutes, I usually get into a groove.
Once I put a
writing session on the calendar, I keep the appointment as if I were meeting a
client or going to a job. This is a great way to say “no” to invitations or
volunteer opportunities you’d rather forgo.
“Sorry, but I
have something scheduled that afternoon,” is a polite way to decline and stay on track with your goals. (If
it’s too good to pass up, be sure to reschedule a writing session for another
time.)
Accountability
Sometimes we
have editor-imposed deadlines, but not every writer has an official assignment
or other external motivation to produce something. Joining a writers’ group,
either locally or online, gives us the extra incentive.
I’ve crashed
through many walls with help from my writing cheerleaders. Often, one of us in
my critique group sends a group text with a challenge.
Our favorite is
“Power Hour.” When we receive the text, we each reply with the hour we’ve
chosen to focus on a writing project. The rest of the group prays for us during
our intensive work hour and vice versa. We send congratulations when a member
completes the challenge. I’m always amazed at what I can accomplish in an hour.
When thinking of
challenges, keep it fun! Other ideas include word count challenges (e.g., 1000
words today) or number of blog posts/articles or chapters written in a week. Every
group will have unique goals. Facing them together gives you better odds at
keeping Busy away.
Busy Bully won’t stand a chance if you
hit him with a triple jab—delegation, schedule, and accountability. Stop him cold with those three methods
and you’ll own writer’s block.
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Lyneta Smith is
a Christian writer and speaker who lives near Nashville with her husband in
their almost empty nest. When she’s
not curled up next to her Boston terrier and tortoise-shell cat, engrossed in
writing, she’s out working in her tiny garden or teaching ladies’ Bible study.
Her published work can be found in several Chicken
Soup for the Soul books, Clubhouse Jr.,
and many regional newspapers and magazines.
Lyneta, I love the analogy of Busy Bully. I do get beat up by business. Thank you for the tools to put the bully at rest.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Cherrilynn! I'm glad the tools were helpful.
DeleteBecause I have a full-time job, I decided to get up an hour earlier every morning to devote to writing after I have my Bible study time. You had some great ideas I will also interject into my schedule. I like the idea of the Power Hour with writing buddies.
ReplyDeleteBarbara, I love to write early in the morning too. That's when my best stuff comes out.
DeleteThese are some great tips, Lyneta, and a great visual analogy to remind me I'm fighting off someone who shouldn't win when I'm fighting for writing time. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jerusha. It really is a struggle. Glad to know I'm not the only one!
DeleteGood job, my CC sister. I have a Busy Bully hounding me all the time. Thanks for the tips.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sharron! I admire all that you can get done with your schedule.
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