by LaTan Murphy @LaTanM
Someone once
said, "He who writes to please
himself, caters to a fool."
What truth this
bears.
Our
words-whether written, or spoken, are not to be kept to ourselves for
narcissistic tickling of our own ears.
They are God-inspired, for the purpose
of blessing others with the rich, powerful influence entrusted to us.
Establishing a
platform is something every writer must pursue. Drawing an audience is key in
creating visibility, influence, and recognition. We live in a noisy world where
there is much talk about: OURSELVES. Oh,
it's easy to be VISIBLE—even an obnoxious person is most definitely VISIBLE,
because an obnoxious person demands attention. Your platform offers a
special realm of influence with profound accessibility for captivating the
audience you are targeting. Little by
little, as you establish your platform your opportunity to influence
the lives of many will grow richer, deeper.
No one can bring your unique, wealth of wisdom to the world quite like
you can. This kind of influence is much more important than being obnoxiously
VISIBLE.
As a speaker
and writer, one of the most valuable lessons I have learned is:
To never become
so pleased with myself that I forget the goal of pleasing my readers and
audiences. Although my stories are important and meaningful to me, I must find
a way to relay rich messages that benefit others through them.
As you
prepare yourself to write, or speak to your audience, ask yourself this very
important question:
How can I string
my words together in such a way they touch my audience deeply, meeting the
"felt-needs" of others. Can
readers/listeners relate to my message?
Perhaps, you
write fiction and feel this point doesn't really apply to you.
Trust me, it does apply. The most powerful books ever written, the most
influential speeches ever spoken, were written and orated by this genius approach: Meeting "felt needs" in order to
touch lives deeply.
Remember: Our audience wants to experience fruitful
"take-aways." Your audience
should leave better than they came to your event, your website, your social
media sites. What is the drawing force
for my audience/readers? You may not
know all the answers, but with research and study-time you will be able to
bring quality to those following you.
Think about:
What
ideas, motivation, direction, solutions do I offer, or can I offer, with additional
research? Using this approach will help
you influence others at the highest level possible.
As a writer,
we must study human nature in order to produce work that inspires, changes,
transforms the world around us. Anything less than this becomes self-centered
glory.
Today, I'd like
to challenge you to pay attention to the world around you. Ask yourself: "What do I bring to the table of
life that has power to nourish
souls?"
Your greatest
platform will build itself as you think in an "others-minded"
way. I challenge you to write and/or
speak to your audience from this perspective.
If your goal is
to be "funny" - you must write about comical things that make people
laugh. If your goal is to help men learn how to be better husbands, then you
must write what you have learned from your own life-experiences or observations
of others. Always write with an outward approach; your words are for others,
not to be kept to yourself. Your writing and speaking goals should remain
centered around meeting the "felt-needs" of your audience.
Watch and
Learn:
- Linger over the people you influence (your audience) taking careful note of what they respond to.
- Think about how your own world collides with your audience.
- Offer relatable life-experiences.
- Write three topics you could write, or speak about.
- Based on these experiences, what can you share that will change your followers lives for the better?
- Practice writing speaking material by thinking introspectively - putting yourself inside of your audiences heads: how might your audience think, feel, react to the world you are creating.
Ask Yourself:
"Do I
speak from within my readers and from within my audience"?
The Result:
Powerful,
influential, relatable words flowing fluidly, effectively.
May your
platform, your audience, and your influence be blessed territories as you
dedicate yourself to these simple principles.
LaTan
Murphy
Visit LaTan at:
www.latanmurphy.com
Twitter: @LaTanM
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LaTan Murphy
Thank you LaTan, I love your name. Does is have a particular meaning? This quote is brilliant, "They are God-inspired, for the purpose of blessing others with the rich, powerful influence entrusted to us." I pray this will always be my focus. May God continue to use you as you serve Him.
ReplyDeleteCheerilynn, My name has no special meaning. I believe the French meaning is: "the girl"
DeleteThank you for reading my article, and for sharing! Write on!
LaTan, thank you for such rich takeaways! I especially liked,"What do I bring to the table of life that has power to nourish souls?" This is one question I'll keep before me as I move forward on this writing journey. You're such a blessing!!
ReplyDeleteCathy, I am working on a book about the part you mentioned. You have encouraged me further.
DeleteLaTan, thank you for this great post...it is filled with great insight. I am always blessed by your writing!
ReplyDeleteDee Dee,, thank you so much!
Deletehullo LaTan!! it's all about our readers / audience! good thoughts to keep this in perspective!
ReplyDeleteRobin, this "others-minded" approach is the joy of life!
DeleteBeautiful words, my friend. Thanks for sharing. :)
ReplyDeleteAndrea, blessing. I appreciate your reading and sharing!
DeleteHello my sweet friend! What a great post. I know your sweet heart and your words have spoken to mine many times. The Lord ha truly blessed you and continues to use you for His glory! Love you!
ReplyDeleteWhat kind words, Debby Ray. I have great memories of speaking to the women of your church, and precious memories of times spent with you!
DeleteLaTan, I love "How can I string my words together in such a way they touch my audience deeply, meeting the "felt-needs" of others." It's a special gift from God to know how to feel, then write/speak to the needs of others. You, sweet friend, possess that gift.
ReplyDeleteGail, thank you very much!.
ReplyDeleteHi LaTan. Very helpful. Getting inside my readers' heads is powerful for me, moreso than writing about too much personal experiences. I'm working on finding balance. Getting inside their heads will do that. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteExcellent LaTan! Wisdom, truth and inspiration shared here my friend!
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