For too long I
believed failure was only negative — something to be avoided at all costs.
Now I’m more accepting
of failure. It may take me down for awhile, but it doesn’t defeat me or define
me.
Don’t get me wrong: I
like success just as much as anyone else. Bring it on! But I know to
achieve success, both personally and professionally, I have to take risks. I
have to try new things, realizing that my efforts may or may not work. I can’t
tell you how many times I’ve said, “Won’t know if it’ll work until we try it.”
(Usually I’m discussing a book marketing idea.)
I’m getting more and
more comfortable outside the safe zone. That’s where the fun happens—both
failures and successes. That’s where new ideas are birthed and where I grow
most as a person. Yes, sometimes an idea bombs. But that’s okay. A failed
attempt doesn’t mean I’m a failure. It just means I get another chance to try
something else—I get another chance to succeed!
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A nonfiction writer and editor who said she’d never write fiction, Beth is now a novelist with Howard Books. She enjoys writing inspirational contemporary romance because she believes there’s more to happily-ever-after than the fairy tales tell us. Connect with Beth on her website, Twitter, Facebook, or check out her blog on quotes, In Others’ Words.
Beth, Great post. I began writing 18 months ago. The best advice I received from other writers; expect rejection. At the 2015 Blue Ridge Mountain Christian Writers Conference I pitched my first book. After two no's and a "Send me the proposal." I was not devastated because I expected it. I took all the critiques to heart, now I have a book contract. Thank you for the reminder.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your book contract! (And sorry for the delayed response -- I am in DC for my daughter's volleyball tournament.)
DeleteI take a risk with every book I start. During the planning stage I think there is no way I can do this. That feeling last about halfway through the book. Then as it comes together, I'm glad I risked failure...
ReplyDeleteLove how you applied this to writing, Pat. So, so true.
DeleteGreat advice. I take a risk with my writing. But then I have to remember that life itself is a risk and I can depend on the Lord Jesus to guide my way. Thanks again for your post.
ReplyDeleteGood morning, Marjorie,
DeleteThank you for the reminder to rely on our faith as we risk.
I received a rejection this past week from the Upper Room devotion. After over a year, my devotion had been eliminated in the final round. Since this was the first devotion I submitted to the UR, I felt good knowing that it got that far and that the UR encouraged me to submit again.
ReplyDeleteSheryl: Congratulations on getting so far in the process with Upper Room! That is fantastic! Keep trying -- I'm certain you will succeed!
DeleteBeth, great post. I heard many years ago, I can't remember where, that we learn more from our failures than we do from our successes. As my friend, Marge Hill, said above, "I can depend on the Lord Jesus to guide my way." I'm trusting Him in this writing journey, failures and all.
ReplyDeleteGood morning, Debra: It's true that we learn more from our failures than our successes ... and the successes are all the sweeter in the long run, right?
DeleteWonderful post. Especially the line "A failed attempt doesn’t mean I’m a failure. It just means I get another chance to try something else—I get another chance to succeed!" In my past I have held 47 different jobs, I received my Realtor Licence, Barbers License, and was a Para-educator. I was also a financial counselor and a prayer counselor and went to school for business courses and Writing School. I never knew what I wanted to be when I grew up. Why you might ask? Well because I am bi-polar my moods change and most jobs can't deal with that. But it isn't all the fault of my illness. some of it is that I love change. And with change of course comes failure. But God has taught me one thing and that is if we never fail it is because we aren't trying anything new. Your post hit right on the money for me. Great job. I look forward to reading more of your work.
ReplyDeleteCarol: Honesty is one of my greatest values and I so appreciated your honesty today -- well, yesterday. Sorry I didn't reply sooner, I'm in DC for my daughter's volleyball tourney. I love how you have taken what some would see as a weakness and turned it into something positive: I LOVE CHANGE. Brava!
DeleteBeth, What a terrific reminder that the writing life is filled with risk and rewards. The path for success isn't just a straight line. God honors faithfulness and persistence and commitment to learning the craft of writing. Well-done.
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"The path to success isn't just a straight line." So well said, Terry!
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