Okay,
let's be honest here. How many times have you cringed at the word, networking?
When I first started writing and speaking, I struggled with the whole concept
of promotion and marketing and...yes, networking.
After
all, this writing/ministry thing was supposed to be all about Him, not me. I
just wanted to write and speak words that would ultimately point others to the
grace, mercy, and love of Jesus Christ. I didn't want to talk about me.
My
goodness, humility is enough of a struggle, and now they're telling me I've got
to advertise? Good grief!
But
then somewhere along the way, a wise person told me that Jesus believed in
networking. That just couldn't be true! What about Jesus' words in Matthew
telling us to be humble, like Him? What about the whole "last shall be
first" thing? What about Philippians 2 where Paul says:
Do
nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider
others better than yourselves. Philippians 2:3
And
now they're telling me I need to network?
Wise
Person then pointed out that when Jesus selected His disciples and sent them
out, He was telling them to network. When He declared what we now know as The
Great Commission, He was telling His followers spread out, to make other
followers, and teach them to network. When Paul and Barnabas and others
traveled on their missionary journeys, they brought letters of recommendation
from those in leadership...and they wrote letters for others. That was
networking.
Attending
writers conferences, reading and posting on others' blogs, promoting others'
work and helping them succeed, taking classes, and yes, writing for free are
all forms of networking in the writing world. As I look back on my years as a
writer, I can see that most of the friendships and connections that have
positively influenced by business and ministry have come about through
networking.
But
don't be deceived. Networking is NOT using others and making connections for
the sole purpose of advancing your own agenda. It's sad to say, but it happens
a lot.
So
what about you? Are you connecting with others in order to spread the Name of
Christ? Are you seeking like-minded leaders who could give letters of
recommendation for your work? Are you recommending others yourself? Are you
helping others succeed?
If
so, then you're networking. And done right, networking is a good thing.
Have
you experienced success through networking? Would you join the conversation and
tell us about it? And remember, we don’t need specific names or locations, but
we’d love to see the results of good networking in action!
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Networking & Jesus, they aren't incompatible - tips for speakers & writers via @VondaSkelton on @EdieMelson (Click to Tweet)
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Vonda Skelton is a speaker
and the author of four books: Seeing
Through the Lies: Unmasking the Myths Women Believe and the 3-book Bitsy
Burroughs mysteries for children 8-12 yo. She’s the founder and co-director of Christian Communicators Conference,
offering speakers’ training and community for Christian women called to
ministry. Vonda is a frequent instructor at writer’s conferences and keynotes
at business, women’s, and associational events. You can find out more about
Vonda, as well as writing opportunities and instruction at her writer’s blog,
The Christian Writer’s Den at VondaSkelton.com.
I'm a born networker. I love to connect people with others who can help them or provide what they need. :)
ReplyDeleteYou are indeed, Ane! I'm so thankful God connected us!
ReplyDeleteWonderful article! Thank you! I have wondered how to balance the idea of networking with the true humility that promotes Jesus and his renown.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your input and encouragement, Karen. It was quite an eye opener when I realized the application. After all, it's a way to connect to others and get the word out about His grace! Blessings on your day!
DeleteNetworking can be a scary thing, but so doable. I have "met" so many people I would never have come in contact with otherwise. People I barely know have been such a blessing to me in both my writing and editing. I love to return the favor. Some of the best advice I ever received was to believe every day for divine connections, appointments, and favor. God can open doors we could never imagine. Yes, Jesus would network! :)
ReplyDelete"Believe every day for divine connections, appointments, and favor." I love that, Andrea! And I think I know who said it. :-) Blessings, sweet friend!
DeleteVonda, what a great perspective on networking. Thanks for the inspiration.
ReplyDeleteMy parents always emphasized do-onto-others as you'd like to have others do for you. I try to incorporate this in my Tweeting & blogging. Though it would be nice--of course--for return "favors" I sincerely do not social network exclusively for this reason. I enjoy helping others.The unexpected payback is exactly what Andrea said above: I've met so many lovely, good-hearted people that I would have never known otherwise. These kind souls have helped me through several rough patches and I hope I've done, and can do, the same for them.
Hi Elaine! Thank you for your kind words. Yes, your parents taught you well. Thank YOU for the reminder. We're blessed by His gift of friendships through His body! Hope to see you soon.
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