I’ve never met a writer whose road to publication was a
straight path. All of them tell stories about a much longer journey, often
filled with detours and odd twists.
But one thing they all say is that they wouldn’t be where
they are today without the experience they gained along the journey. Here’s my
story:
I stared at the
letter in my hand, almost unable to comprehend what I read. It was two days
before Christmas, 1999. I’d been so sure God had called me to write,
specifically to write Bible studies. This particular manuscript had been at the
publishers over a year and, until now, I’d only received encouragement about
the progress toward my first book contract.
Dear Mrs. Melson, We’re sorry but this manuscript doesn’t fit
our needs at this time. While it’s a good manuscript, you
just
don’t have the platform needed.
First came the
tears, then anger and frustration. Why had God planted this seed of hope within
me only to deny me the opportunity?
Fast forward to
Christmas 2007, the first year our family celebrated Christmas apart. Our
oldest was serving as an infantry marine in Iraq. To say it was a tough year is
almost a laughable understatement, but we made it through. God brought our son
home safe.
Then on
Veterans Day 2011 my first book debuted—a devotional for military families. The
best first book I could have ever had because it was birthed out of the fire of
experience. But I had to walk the path to get there.
During those
years—that long time which felt more like treading water than moving
forward—God was refining my heart and giving me time to learn to write well.
I learned that
just because I had a heart to write, and a calling to write, I still had a lot
to learn. Raw talent is never enough. Nothing can replace experience.
Take a look
around you right now. You’re in a unique place, a place that has a lot to teach you, a place you’ll never be
able to return to. Don’t waste the experiences you have access to right now. Go
deep and wide as a writer, and no matter what the future brings you’ll have
built a boat circumstances can never sink.
How have
unexpected detours actually moved you further along the writing road? Share
your experiences to encourage someone else.
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forget to join the conversation!
Blessings,
Edie
Life is about learning experiences and everything we do and go through is a learning experience, God will build on teaching us to walk, but first we need to learn to crawl instead of whine. I learned to truck in Vietnam via OJT. The first time I needed to back up in a straight line was during a mortar attack and I was in an ammunition dump with a load of bombs on my truck. I finally jumped out of the truck and rode the forklift to the safety of a bunker. When I finally got back to base I taught myself to back up in a straight line at full speed with the pedal on the floor. My very first load as a
ReplyDeletecivilian truck driver that experience paid off. The Lord prepared my path and I thank him for that every day. Love the hands picture. Do you know what kind of plant it is, I think gourd of some kind or melon?...
It's a Vinca, Ric, and I appreciate your story. I've lived in relative obscurity for the last 20 years as a homeschool mom rearing and educating my children. Sometimes I wondered if I was wasting my "talent." When my years were over, I had enough wisdom and experience to write a devotional book for other homeschooling moms.
DeleteI continue to work part time as a dental hygienist. Sometimes my patients will hear about my writing life and ask if I'm going to quit being a dental hygienist. I always smile secretively and say, "Oh, no! This is where I find all my best material!" :)
Lori, just because we live in physical obscurity doesn't mean we live in spiritual obscurity. Something I've had to learn. Thanks so much for stopping by! Blessings, E
DeleteRic, what a great example! Thanks so much for sharing your story. Blessings, E
DeleteEdie, thanks for sharing part of your writing journey with us today.
ReplyDeleteI started out writing screenplays in 2003. Years later I realized how difficult it is to break into the movie business (from any aspect, really, but especially as a writer.) Then one day it hit me. Why don't I write books? I mean, I've always loved reading books, but I had never really thought about the fact that someone had to write those books. Oh sure, I'd noticed the bylines. But it never occurred to me that maybe I could be one of those people who has a byline on a book cover. When I finally took notice and realized I had stories in me that could easily (okay, not so easily) be transformed into books instead of (or alongside) screenplays, I started digging into the how-to's of writing a novel. Yes, I'm still learning. Yes, I will always still be learning. But I'd like to think my journey is progressing nicely now. I finished another round of edits for book one of a series I'm working on. Next up? Researching, plotting and writing book two. I'm so excited!
Blessings,
Andrea
Andrea, that's great encouragement! Thanks so much for sharing your story, Blessings E
DeleteThis is so encouraging, Edie. I've been around many obstacles and crawled over some difficult roadblocks in the past three years. I'm still struggling to work on the study I planned (What's that old saying about making plans?)to finish two years ago.
ReplyDeleteI pray my experiences over these years will enrich my writing.
Sherry I know it will. I've learned God never wastes the experiences He gives us! Hang in there! Blessings, E
DeleteThis is so encouraging. I now realize that I have to go through the process to get the reward. I'm experiencing such a dry spell in my life, but I know God will pull me through with something BIGGER than I can imagine. Thank you soooooo much.
ReplyDeleteBeth
Beth, I'm so glad I was able to encourage you. Dry spells are incredibly hard, but the harvest that comes after is worth the pain. Thanks so much for stopping by! Blessings, E
DeleteThanks, Edie. My path seems so long because I'm old and have a number of illnesses. I sometimes stress that I may not have enough time to learn what I need to learn so my first book will finally be published. Then... I realize God is in total control of my writing life. If He wants the book published, it will be published. I need to concentrate on what I can learn each day and how I can grow in my skills so that my writing is worthy of being published. It's a long road. However, when I look back a year or two, I am amazed at how I have grown. I'm more at peace now about the journey. I also try not to forget about the every day writing opportunities that may never make it to paper. The words written on facebook, blogs, and emails can be more important than our books.
ReplyDeleteOne phrase that always arrests me in Scripture: "...in the fullness of time..." I want to be on God's timetable, not mine.
ReplyDeleteIn retrospect, I see how important that my book came out this year as opposed to 4 or 5 years ago. Not only is my writing better, but also current events make the book more believable.
Of course, when we're traveling this road, we don't see these things. It takes trust to keeping putting one foot in front of the other.