a guest post by Jackie E. Perry
Jackie E. Perry is a counselor, speaker and writer. She has spent the last two decades counseling teens and families. As a dynamic speaker and writer Jackie is passionate about encouraging and equipping parents and professionals to walk purposefully and lovingly alongside adolescents in their final trek toward adulthood. She's married to her best friend and together they are the parents of two teens and one tween.
If you read last
Thursday’s blog about Digital Immigrants, you learned a bit about the challenges Digital Immigrants face
as their brain attempts to navigate today’s rapidly changing world of
technology. Neuroscience research reveals that the hardwired brain of
Immigrants may at first resist life in a digital world but because of the
malleability of the brain, it can slowly and surely adapt to new
technology.
This week we will
discuss technology’s impact on the brains of Digital Natives. To help you assess whether you are a Native,
I have made a checklist a la Jeff Foxworthy.
“You might be a Digital Native if
… as a small child your parents often entertained you with
their cellphone or laptop instead of a rattle and some blocks.”
…you have to ask someone what the letters VCR stand
for.”
…your first words were ‘Google’
instead of ‘gaga’!”
If technology was your primary way to communicate with, record,
educate, and understand society as you grew up, you are most certainly a
Digital Native.
Can You Pat your Head and Rub your Belly at the Same Time?
Remember that
challenge from grade school? Since many forms of digital technology are
typically being utilized at the same time, multitasking for Digital Natives has
become a way of life. In his book iBrain,
Gary Small reveals that exposure to multiple devices at once, particularly
during formative years, affects the neural networking process in the brain.
These synaptic connections become hardwired to expect and even desire more than
one stimulus at a time.
My teenage daughter,
like many Digital Natives, prefers to do her homework with headphones on while toggling
between Google, Facebook, Twitter and the inbox on her cellphone. In fact many Natives
do quite well balancing more than one thing at a time and often struggle with
focus when forced to complete one task at a time! Small notes that some research
attributes this shift to changes in cognitive capabilities and increased average
IQ scores. Others point out that while there may be an increased breadth of
knowledge, the changing brain may now be experiencing limitations in its
ability to contemplate, think deeply or fully assimilate concepts or new ideas.
Hundreds of Friends, Fewer Friendships
Some researchers
believe this idea of breadth versus depth may also be impacting the quality of
social relationships in this digital era? Many people these days have hundreds
or even thousands of “friends” and “followers” online. But could the depth or
quality of individual friendships be at risk when digital devices seem to
dominate the way many people connect with one another? Since the brain learns
and adapts through exposure, when conversational rhythms, intonations, empathic
expressions, facial cues and nonverbal expressions are limited, the brain may
not adequately develop neural connections that are critical for deep and intimate
relationships.
Tech-Free Brain Training
So while Digital
Natives are at an advantage in their ability to scan and assimilate information
at rapid rates, when it comes to deep friendships, the digital world cannot sufficiently
provide the depth and breadth of social learning that occurs in vivo. In order
to help Digital Natives and Immigrants with increased deficits in this area,
Small devotes the latter half of his book exercises and tips that will enhance
social skills by learning how to empathize, read, listen, focus, and genuinely
engage with others for the sake of brain health and human happiness.
1Marc Prensky, On the Horizon (MCB University Press, Vol. 9 No.
5, October 2001)
Jackie E. Perry is a counselor, speaker and writer. She has spent the last two decades counseling teens and families. As a dynamic speaker and writer Jackie is passionate about encouraging and equipping parents and professionals to walk purposefully and lovingly alongside adolescents in their final trek toward adulthood. She's married to her best friend and together they are the parents of two teens and one tween.
This is a really interesting topic. My kids are definitely Digital Natives. But we hold them back on the constant use of technology. We prefer they read than spend hours online, on the phone, or watching TV. I'm going to get this book. The exercises about reading social clues sounds fascinating! Thanks Jackie for writing about this topic!
ReplyDeleteMary, I am glad you enjoyed this post. As a mom I too strive to find balance for my kids with regard to electronics and reading and relationships. Another great book I would also recommend is by Nicholas Carr called The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to our Brain. Small's book is an easier read but Carr's is very well regarded but a little more heady.
DeleteThanks Jackie, I will look into it!
DeleteWell, I am definitely a digital dinosaur! But I'm willing to learn if someone can break it down into little, bitty words...
ReplyDeleteCarol,I think your comment perfectly reflects how we Digital Immigrants must learn things in this digital age, step-by-step. And once we assimilate the process, we can maneuver ourselves just fine! Thank for reading the post!
DeleteI'm with you, Carol. My husband is techie, but he often calls me a dinosaur. I'm pretty proud to keep them alive and well - if we don't, who will?
ReplyDeleteOh, the post is very interesting. I joke, but I'd really love to be up to speed like my husband and kids.
ReplyDeleteKim, tell your techie husband (I am married to one as well!) that we dinosaurs are slowly catching up but we are enjoying our RELATIONSHIPS along the way. Glad you found the post interesting. Blessings, Jackie Perry
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