by Molly Jo Realy @RealMoJo68
You can find her on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and her blog, Frankly, My Dear . . .
Have you experienced a bad
review?
I say experienced because that’s really what it is, isn’t it? You don’t
just read it and move on. Not if it’s about your
book. Am I right?
A while back, I had such an experience, and was able to use
it as a Cinderella moment.
Grab yourself a glass of tea while I tell you a
story.
First, the set up.
Last summer, I set up one of
my Kindle books for a two-day free giveaway. Good marketing, I thought. It
would get The Unemployment Cookbook, and my name, into a few more households,
and hopefully lead to some better sales down the road.
And then, the conflict.
The plan was working, as more
four- and five-star reviews were left on the page. That is, until, well, let’s
just say someone forgot to put some honey in their tea that morning. Not only
was this particular review negative, it was personally directed at me. By
someone who didn’t know me. This troll bashed my recipes, my cookbook, and me without one hint of compassion or
understanding.
it kept gnawing at me like a tick on a dog. |
I tried to let it go. But it
kept gnawing at me like a tick on a dog. I wasn’t brave enough to comment on the
review and tell the troll how wrong he/she was. How he/she had obviously not read
the intro or understood why I wrote
the Cookbook to begin with. Nor had he/she bothered to look at my notes for
each recipe which allow for the cook to fix it to fit their own family, wallet
and taste. No, I didn’t say any of that. I just stewed. (See what I did there?)
And then the resolution.
A few days later, I made a
small comment on Facebook. I wasn’t looking for affirmations or kudos. I just
wanted to share how words, especially unearned harsh ones, can be a speed bump
on our happy road.
After a matter of minutes, my
Swarm came to my rescue, unbidden and unbeknownst to me. Hours later when I
checked my social media stats, I had emails and Tweets and comments and shares.
Good review after good review poured in, contradicting the bad one. Comments
and rebuffs countered his/her position. The more the reviews came in, the more
I thanked the readers on the Facebook post stream, which boosted visibility of
the original post, which created more reviews in my defense.
The happy ending. |
The happy ending.
At the end of the day, that
one bad review led to over ten good reviews, and The Unemployment Cookbook was
listed in the Amazon Top 100 Paid Reference Books. Not only that, but because I
had waited until the giveaway was over to post anything, the new attention
garnered a few unexpected sales.
The takeaway.
You can’t stop people from
being, well, people. There’s bound to be one bad apple in the barrel now and
then. What you can do is be real. Thank your Swarm for the good reviews, and
share with them the bad. Then watch them buzz to back you up. It’s a sweet
thing to have a community.
With some sweet tea and a spoonful
of honey,
~ Happy writing.
Molly Jo
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Molly Jo is a writer, editor, social media ninja, and producer of the weekly Firsts in Fiction podcast. She has been featured in children’s magazines, on blogs and devotional websites, and her short stories have earned her awards and scholarships from nationally acclaimed writing programs. She is the founder of New Inklings Press and author of The Unemployment Cookbook: Ideas for Feeding Families One Meal at a Time, and other books available through her website and on Amazon.
Her current work in progress, NOLA, is a location mystery set in New Orleans and is scheduled for publication in late 2016.
Thanks for the advice, Molly Jo. My book (_Confederate Cabinet Departments and Secretaries_ by McFarland) hasn't been out long enough to garner reviews--good or bad--but your words have helped prepare for for that day!
ReplyDeleteMolly Jo, Thank you for sharing. My first book is not out yet. I plan on a few bad reviews due to doctrine belief and mean people. Your experience has helped me. I am already praying for my readers. Congrats on the great reviews.
ReplyDeleteMolly Jo, Thanks for the great advice that can translate into everyday life as well :)
ReplyDeleteThe thing about a bad review is this: It hurts. One of my books received a bad review. The reviewer started out by using. "Not for Me" as her review title. Then she proceeded to slam the story and the characters. Now if the book wasn't for her, why did she continue reading it? This was my thought. But the bad review just really seeped into my heart and soul, and it continued to hurt. For one thing, when I got the bad review I felt so isolated and alone, like I'm the only one who ever got one. Thanks for this post. It has helped a lot.
ReplyDeleteI did go to her review page and saw that she gave very few good reviews. So I;m not alone after all. ;-}
I've had a stalker, whom I reported to Amazon. I've also had a fellow author state that my book read as a rough draft and I could always revise (I'm traditionally published and my book had a professional editor who helped polish the story). I was surprised by the comment, but after the stalker reviews I no longer worried about 3 and less star reviews. You have great advice and new authors will learn from it. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your experience Molly Jo and for turning it upside down!
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