by Lynn H. Blackburn
Show Don’t Tell!
Telling
is so easy though. If I say, “Caroline was so angry when they fired her” you
know she’s mad.
Unfortunately,
telling is also lazy writing. It takes a lot more of our creative juices to
say, “Caroline turned toward the window and took a slow breath. Then another.
Heat coursed through her limbs as she considered her options. If they thought
she would be willing to go quietly, they had underestimated her. Again. She
drove her heels into the floor to stop her legs from shaking…”
You get
the idea.
The
tricky part comes when you tackle a book length project and catch yourself
using the same responses…over and over and over again.
- She let out a deep sigh.
- She crossed her arms.
- She pursed her lips.
- Her face flushed.
It’s fine
to use those now and then, but wouldn’t it be great if we could be more
descriptive? Get the point across without using the same tired phrases?
Last
month, I reviewed DiAnn Mill’s excellent book, The Dance of Character and Plot.
In it, she recommended The Emotion Thesaurus by Angela
Ackerman and Becca Puglisi as a resource for helping writers do that very
thing.
The Emotion Thesaurus opens with a brief but excellent primer on writing
nonverbal emotion (and yes, it will cover Show Don’t Tell) and then gives
suggestions for using the thesaurus.
The
thesaurus itself includes both internal and external examples of each emotion.
So whether your POV character is feeling or observing the emotion, you’ll find
plenty of options.
For each
emotion, you’ll find the following entries:
(I’m
using Anger for our examples)
- Definition: helps you make sure this is the emotion you’re going for
- Physical Signals: this is usually a long list and covers the outwardly obvious signs
- Internal Sensations: Helps you describe what your character is physically feeling
- Mental Responses: Helps you describe what’s going on in your character’s thoughts
- Cues of Acute or Long Term {Anger}: This is a fascinating option. For our anger example, this list includes road rage, hypertension, ulcers, and exploding over little things
- May Escalate to: RAGE
- Writer’s Tip: These are general tips about how to make the emotions believable.
I found The
Emotion Thesaurus to be a wise investment. It’s available in paperback
and while I usually prefer my craft books to be paper books (I like to
highlight, dog-ear, and spill coffee on them—makes me feel like real writer)
I’m glad I made an exception with The Emotion Thesaurus and went with
the Kindle version (available for a very reasonable $4.99).
The May
Escalate To portion of each entry includes links, so if I want to see if the
responses for Rage are a better fit, one click takes me there. I also like the
Kindle version because I do a lot of my writing away from home and I’m enjoying
being able to access it from my phone or laptop.
So what
about you? Do you have any pet phrases you catch yourself falling back on in
your writing? Seen any unique descriptions recently? Share them with us in the
comments!
Don’t
forget to join the conversation!
Lynn
Lynn Huggins Blackburn has been telling herself stories since she was five and finally started writing them down. She blogs about faith, family, and her writing journey on her blog Out of the Boat. Lynn is a member of the Jerry B. Jenkins Christian Writers Guild and the Word Weavers, Greenville. She lives in South Carolina where she hangs out with three lively children, one fabulous man, and a cast of imaginary characters who find their way onto the pages of her still unpublished novels. She drinks a lot of coffee.
Lynn, thanks for pointing out the Emotion Thesaurus. Angela Ackerman and Becca Puglisi do a fantastic job giving concrete examples for writing emotions.
ReplyDeleteSandy, they really do. And I love their website: http://writershelpingwriters.net. Thanks for stopping by, Blessings, Edie
DeleteAn absolute necessity for any writer! I love mine. :)
ReplyDeleteSounds like a great book. Reminds me of Descriptionary.
ReplyDeleteVonda, it is similar. Both are very helpful resources. Blessings, E
DeleteLynn, thank you so much for the wonderful review! Becca and I are so glad something we wrote is helping so many. Writing (especially writing emotion well) is a tough job for all of us, so we're happy to help. And thank you too about mentioning The Dance of Character and Plot. That is so neat that DiAnn mentioned us--I haven't heard of this craft book before, but I will check it out!
ReplyDeleteHappy writing, and enjoy the weekend!
Angela
Angela, thanks for stopping by. Your website and all your books are on my must-read list I give to writers. Blessings, Edie
DeleteI love it, too. It really helps me see the emotions from my character's internal point of view or as he/she sees it in another character.
ReplyDeleteI definitely get a lot out of. Thanks, Angie, for stopping by, Blessings, E
DeleteI find it helpful, too. As we all know, men don't understand emotions (we think we don't have any), so any book that helps me with that bit of knowledge is greatly appreciated.
ReplyDeleteRon, I just don't buy that stereotype, even from you! This is a resource we can all use - over and over again! Blessings, E
DeleteSounds like a great resource. When I read the title of today's post, I was already excited. I'll have to pick it up in the future.
ReplyDeleteOoh! I can't wait to add this one to my library! I'm off to order it now. :) Thanks for the review, Lynn!
ReplyDeleteEdie, can you please share the link to Angela Ackerman's website? Thanks!
ReplyDeleteHeading to Amazon and the Kindle store tight now! I sure could up my game with this book!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for this post! I've begun to notice lately how much I repeat my emotional phrases, and it's been driving me absolutely crazy, because I've had trouble fixing it! I'll definitely look into this.
ReplyDeleteEdie and Lynn, thank you for this wonderful review of The Emotion Thesaurus. The book has been out for awhile now, and I'm still surprised to hear writers talking about how they're finding it useful. Thanks for spreading the word! And Lynn, my maiden name is Huggins. Clearly, we're related ;).
ReplyDeleteI love my Emotion Thesaurus. It really helps to break the monotony of crossing your arms and smiling. :-)
ReplyDeleteThank you. I'm asking for this for my Christmas Present!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Lynn. It sounds like a book that needs to be on my desk.
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