Friday, January 10, 2020

26 Things to Remember About Being a Writer

by Edie Melson @EdieMelson

Lately I've had a lot of folks ask me what it takes to become a writer. 

The real answer takes hours, but today I decided to just boil it down to the basics. 

26 Things to Remember About Being a Writer

A is for Adventure. The Writer’s life is definitely full of surprising twists and turns—we never know when we’ll be ambushed by an idea or spend half a day looking for just the right word.

B is for Balance. It’s easy to get overwhelmed with the writing life. We all need to practice a healthy balance.

C is for Cathartic. The experiences I’ve had in life always seem to creep into my writing, even if they’re unrecognizable to anyone else. Processing what I’ve been through with words has been a good thing.

D is for Discipline. To be a writer, you must…well…write. It’s not often easy, but it is fulfilling.

E is for Encourage. Yes, we need to encourage others with our words. But even more importantly, we need to use our words to encourage ourselves. Don’t be your own worst enemy by constantly talking down to yourself.

F is for Failure. Failure is an option, and anyone who’s told you differently is lying. I often learn more through failure than through success. It’s painful, but knowing something good comes out of my mistakes often makes them less painful.

G is for Gratitude. Having the freedom of being a writer is a gift I will never take for granted.

H is for Hard. Choosing to be a writer means a lifetime of hard work. It’s rewarding and satisfying, but not easy.

I is for Illustrate. Yes, that’s an artsy sort of word, but I chose it on purpose. Never forget that you are an artist and you illustrate life with words.

J is for Jealousy. It’s far too easy to compare our own journey with that of other writers. It’s easy, but not productive. Each of us has a different path and we need to be striving for excellence, not keeping score with one another.

K is for Knowledge. As writers, the education never ends. We never arrive at the place of knowing it all, so we’re always continuing our education.

L is Long. There are no shortcuts in the writing life. When we choose this path we need to remember to take the long view.

M is for Manna. For me, the words often appear only as I need them. They are gifts from God.

N is for Networking. I know, we’re all introverts and can’t stand the thought of interacting. But the truth is, we need each other. Not just to earn a living and get paid. We need one another for encouragement and to be reminded that we really aren’t crazy.

O is for Odd. That’s what writers are—odd. We look at things just a little differently from the rest of the world. That’s not something to be ashamed of, it’s a gift. 

P is for Peace. We must learn to be content with our gift and the way it plays out. This business isn’t always fair, but things do tend to even out over time. To experience the heights of joy, we must be willing to walk through the valley’s of despair.

Q is for Quality over Quantity.  It's easy to get caught up in the numbers game. We look for the number of words, the number of published pieces, the number of followers, reviews, etc. But it's the quality we need to focus on, no matter what the numbers say.

R is for Rhythm. Good writers know that words must have rhythm. There’s a certain cadence necessary for everything we write.

S is for Send. We were giving this gift of writing for a purpose. We’re being sent into the world to share what we’ve observed. This means we need to hit send and be willing to risk having others read what we’ve written. 

T is for Trust. I need to trust that God has called me as a writer and that my words have value. 

U is for Unique. So often writers struggle with the fact that they don’t have anything new to share. The truth is that each of us is one-of-a-kind. Even if we all write about the exact same thing, it will be from a different and unique perspective. 

V is for Vanquish. There are lots of battles that come with the writing life and the most powerful is fear. We must face the fear we face and vanquish it.

W is for Want. We must each decide how much we want to write. Finding time to write is a lie. The truth is that we must carve out time to write. To do that, we must want it badly enough to give up some things to make it a priority.

X is for Xerophilous. This word means flourishing in a dry environment. As writers, we must write whether we’re in the mood or not. We write when we’re full and when we’re empty. Some of my best work has come by learning to flourish in a dry time.

Y is for Yes. It’s easy to say yes to doing something we know we can accomplish. The true test is saying yes, when we’re uncertain. Being a writer means saying yes—yes to new things, yes to impossible deadlines, and yes to always stretching and growing.

Z is for Zoo. And that’s about as good a description of the writing life as I've found!

These are the things I’ve come up with. I’d love to know what you’d add or change to my Writing Life Alphabet.

Don’t forget to join the conversation!


Edie Melson is a woman of faith with ink-stained fingers observing life through the lens of her camera. No matter whether she’s talking to writers, entrepreneurs, or readers, her first advice is always “Find your voice, live your story.” As an author, blogger, and speaker she’s encouraged and challenged audiences across the country and around the world. Her numerous books reflect her passion to help others develop the strength of their God-given gifts and apply them to their lives. Connect with her on her website,  through FacebookTwitter and Instagram.


  1. Edie,

    Thank you for this engaging list of words for writers and boiling it down for us. I loved the diversity.

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  2. Such a great description of the life of a writer! One of my favorites: A. It's one of my frustrations, not being able to predict what will happen on a writing day. I'm so happy someone else agonizes over the exact right word!! We are not alone.

    1. Julie, thank you for the encouragement! Blessings, Edie

  3. Good work here, Edie. I'm kinda fond of the letter "J." It's as important with "jealousy" as it is with "journey." I've found that IF and WHEN I accept we are all on individual journeys, that totally eliminates room for jealousy.
    Jay Wright; Anderson, SC

    1. Oh Jay! That’s a great addition! Blessings, E

  4. Yes, yes, yes! I am raising my hands in the air (after typing, of course) and saying "Yes, yes, yes!" :-)

    1. Melissa, I had way too much fun coming up with this list! LOL! Blessings, E

  5. Kay, thank you for sharing—and for stopping by! Blessings, E

  6. ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒ Perfect๐ŸŒ ๐Ÿ’œ Thank you for sharing!

  7. what a great idea to do this like an alphabet book! It caught my attention, and gave some important things to remember about writing this new year. Thanks!