by Reba J Hoffman, Ph.D
Anyone who cheerfully says change is good has either never experienced it, or is heavily medicated. Change is tough. Agonizing. Downright heart stopping.
As a writer, I’m sure you know what I’m talking about. Grammar rules changed. Thanks Kirk for letting us know. Publishing requirements remain a moving target. And if that’s not enough, those voices in your head keep changing their mind.
So what is a writer to do to maintain their sanity? Well, vowing to never change won’t quite cut it. But there are things you can do that will help you gain the upper hand on the big “C” word. Here are a few:
- Go out for ice cream. I don’t know if that helps with change but John Maxwell believes that’s a cure all. Works for me.
- Be farsighted. I am. No really. I can see a mile without contacts but can’t see to put them in without glasses. Don’t laugh. When your immediately gets blurry with change, just focus out a mile or two. The view is much better.
- Embrace it. I’m not referring to falling in love with it but rather get that change in a headlock. That way, no matter what happens, you’ll be in control. Change is easier to stomach when you’re in control of it, don’tcha think?
- Initiate it. Have you ever noticed that those who are called “change agents” are always happy? Why? Because they’re out front leading the charge. They’re not the ones getting trampled on in the crowd as everyone else runs for cover. Change is going to happen, like it or not. Why not start the race?!
Hey, change really can be a good thing, particularly if you’re the one in who initiates it. Other things come and go but change is here to stay. Make friends with it and you’ll fare better. Resist it and you’ll lose the fight. Get ice cream and it won’t matter. Just sayin.
Change… gotta love it.
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Reba J. Hoffman is the founder and president of Magellan Life Coaching (www.magellanlifecoaching.com). She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Counseling and is a natural encourager. She serves as Member Care Coach for My Book Therapy and is the author of Dare to Dream, A Writer’s Journal. You can connect with Reba through her motivational blog, Finding True North, or by email at firstname.lastname@example.org. You can also follow her on Twitter at @RebaJHoffman.